Ok, so someone is going to find this somewhat sacrilegious, but I have to make my point. I had a mini-obsession with Kermit the Frog today, or rather more accurately, Jim Henson.
A friend wrote a post about getting back to New York, in that adamant kind of way, when things have been tough but you're determined to rise above them. I had to respond with a comment, with one of the quotes from 'The Muppets Take Manhattan'. Things have gone wrong for Kermit and the show he was trying to sell. All his friends (and co-actors) have had to leave New York and he sits and thinks it all over. As he talks it through with himself, he suddenly finds a new determination and he shouts out,
"You hear me, New York? We're gonna be on Broadway! Because, because, I'm not giving up! I'm still here and I'm stayin'! You hear that New York? I'm stayin' here. The frog is stayin'."
Jim Henson was an optimist, a dreamer, an idealist. Which is exactly what Václav Havel has been 'accused' of having been when he was in power. Václav Klaus is now playing this 'let's get real, shall we?' card for all it's worth. But not with any resolution along the lines of, 'let's knock some things into shape to provide some kind of balance, some justice', but rather by jumping on any convenient bandwagon that presents itself, fair or not.
There are worse things to have been than an optimist, surely? If the best you can do is criticise someone for trying and hoping, then there's something wrong. Yes, I know, you've got to back up that determination with hard work, careful organisation and planning, and sadly, probably also a few considerable changes along the way, but as long as you've got time to think, somewhere to live and enough food to eat, it is worth being an optimist. It is worth hoping.
A loss of those aforementioned things does prevent progress, admittedly. Perhaps not permanently, but certainly for the time during which they have been removed, and that should never be ignored. However, even Adam Gopnik asserts: no-one can live without hope. I could almost disagree with that, because sometimes you have to simply carry on in a totally hopeless environment, and it does feel like simply existing with no reason to, but that's existing. Living, really being alive, truly requires hope.
I miss having that Jim Henson/Václav Havel-like hope and determination, because I now know just how much can be taken away from someone (ill-health, for one thing, negates EVERYTHING else) and how detrimental it is when that happens, but hope feels like home. I suppose I must be homesick, for a home that I never had but that existed in the underlying message of programmes such as 'Sesame Street' and 'The Muppets'.
Jim Henson created a surrogate home for kids who didn't have one, by means of those programmes. He didn't try and teach kids or explain to them, he showed them by the most entertaining examples of other characters working together and creating a kind atmosphere, where anyone could belong. He was insightful and wise in equal measure:
"The attitude you have as a parent is what your kids will learn from more than what you tell them. They don't remember what you try to teach them. They remember what you are."
Sleep on this one, as a reminder of the importance of silliness, which I simply couldn't live without during these testing times:
"Here's some simple advice: Always be yourself. Never take yourself too seriously. And beware of advice from experts, pigs and members of Parliament." [Kermit the Frog]
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